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Bettie L. Calhoun

Bettie L. Calhoun, 97, of Ephrata, passed away on May 17, 2023 at home surrounded by her children.  She was the loving wife of the late Berlie W. Calhoun to whom she was married to for 49 years prior to his death in 1996.

Born in Drumore Township, she was the daughter of the late Samuel B. and S. Margaret (McSparran) Long.

Bettie was an excellent accountant.   She retired from Lancaster Stockyards then went on to work for Bank of Lancaster County. 

In her spare time, Bettie enjoyed quilting and crocheting, completing jigsaw puzzles, as well as various card games.  She was well known for crocheting hundreds of hats and scarves and lovingly donating them to various organizations. 

Bettie was formerly a long-time member of First United Methodist Church in Lancaster, where she was also employed for a number of years.  She was currently a member of Hope United Methodist Church in Ephrata.

She is survived by three children, Ronald L. Calhoun (companion of Carol Vallo), Mary C. Glover (wife of Curtis) and Peg C. Schannauer.  Also surviving are five grandchildren and sixteen great-grandchildren.  In addition to her husband and parents, she was preceded in death by a grandson.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Memorial Service on Saturday, June 10th, 2023 at 10:00 am at Hope United Methodist Church, 3474 Rothsville Rd, Ephrata, PA 17522. Burial to follow in Chestnut Level Cemetery.  

In lieu of flowers, contributions in her memory may be made to ProMedica Hospice, 3417 Concord Rd C, York, PA 17402. 

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  1. Marilyn Rodman says

    May 19, 2023 at 8:08 am

    Our prayers are with you. Peace and blessings

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    • Peg Schannauer says

      May 23, 2023 at 1:58 pm

      Thank you Marilyn. We do have peace – God is so good.

      Peg

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  2. Sharon and Kelly Fasnacht says

    May 19, 2023 at 8:12 am

    Sending our prayers and condolences at this time for the family

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    • Peg Schannauer says

      May 23, 2023 at 1:59 pm

      Thank you Sharon. She was a great lady and awesome mother. We were blessed to have her this long.

      Peg

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  3. Diane Hornberger says

    May 19, 2023 at 8:52 am

    Peg, so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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    • Peg Schannauer says

      May 26, 2023 at 8:56 am

      Thank you Diane. Mom lived with me for the past 8 years. Was a blessing.

      Hope you are doing well.

      Blessings,

      Peg

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  4. Gary&Patty Whitmer says

    May 19, 2023 at 9:08 am

    May God’s Grace give you Comfort. Your in Our Thoughts and Prayers.
    I so enjoyed my Quilt “lessons” with Bettie (Muffin), I will think of her as I quilt on.

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    • Peg Schannauer says

      May 19, 2023 at 10:17 am

      Oh Patty – so good to hear from you. She was an amazing lady and quilter.
      We were blessed to have her for so long. She went peacefully with the three of us with her. It was beautiful.

      Blessings to you and Gary!

      Peg

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  5. Debbie Yoder says

    May 19, 2023 at 1:35 pm

    Peg,
    I’m so sorry for your loss. Losing a mother is always difficult, but I’m glad you had her as long as you did. I’m sure those who were lucky enough to receive one of her crocheted items feel blessed.

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    • Peg Schannauer says

      May 19, 2023 at 10:51 pm

      Thank you Debbie – Also thank you for the many cards you sent to my Mom She loved them and was so pleased when one arrived. It was so thoughtful of you to continue to remember her.

      Blessings,

      Peg

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  6. Amy Raezer says

    May 19, 2023 at 6:02 pm

    Peg,,I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mother!! Many prayers going up during this time!! Blessings & Peace!!

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  7. Hazel Stoudt and Heiser Family says

    May 19, 2023 at 10:22 pm

    Peg, sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family ,

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  8. Lynn Miller says

    May 20, 2023 at 11:23 am

    Peg,
    I was so thankful for my one last visit with your mom. My lasting memory will be her giggles as we chatted that day and being gifted two of her hats, one for me and one for Don. Praying for you and your family as you remember the beautiful woman God gave you to be your mom. I have always treasured her friendship as I do yours. You are loved.

    Lynn and Don, too

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    • Peg Schannauer says

      May 26, 2023 at 8:58 am

      Lynn, You are such a good friend. We had many great moments with Mom before she passed. Will always keep those close and great memories. I was blessed that she was with me these past years. What a blessing .

      Peg

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  9. Bruce and Barb Tucker says

    May 20, 2023 at 8:56 pm

    So sorry for your loss. Bette was a wonderful lady who was always ready to serve.

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    • Peg Schannauer says

      May 26, 2023 at 8:59 am

      Bruce and Barb

      For sure – Mom was always ready to serve and give. Even in her last days she was making sure all the nurses coming to the house received one of her hats she makes.

      Will miss her terribly – but she has been praying to see Jesus and it give me peace knowing where she is.

      Blessings,

      Peg

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  10. Jill Brown says

    May 21, 2023 at 11:28 am

    Hi, Peggy, Mary and Ron–it’s Jill Brown, daughter of your parents’ long-time friends, Helen and Joe Brown. Sending you my sympathies and warmest memories of our parents’ friendships. We visited your family in New Mexico many years ago, and I remember the exciting road trip, the farthest I had ever been from home at that time. It was so fun to play with you, Mary and Peggy, during our stay. Who knew Lancaster County would become home!
    My mother passed away in January of this year, at 104. I hope you will find comfort in the knowledge that old friends are now reunited. And you will one day see your precious mother again.
    Sincerely,
    Jill Brown

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    • Peg Schannauer says

      May 26, 2023 at 9:03 am

      Hello Jill

      Of course I remember your visit to NM. It is a small world and I agree, who knew Lancaster County would be our home!

      I am sorry to hear of your mothers passing. Mom and I often talked about Helen and Joe. She thought Helen had already passed. 104 – amazing!

      Thankful for the friendship Joe and my Dad had. It led to an amazing family that I am part of.

      Hoping you are doing well.

      Blessings,

      Peg

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  11. Radiance says

    May 22, 2023 at 8:33 am

    It was a pleasure getting to know you all. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Your mother was a beautiful woman inside and out.

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    • Peg Schannauer says

      May 26, 2023 at 9:07 am

      Hello Radiance

      What a blessing you and the rest of the staff were. We so appreciated the way you cared for Mom. Especially you. You always took the time needed and then some.

      She met the Lord the way she wanted it to be. At home and peaceful.

      The house is too quiet now – but I am sure I will get accustomed to it.

      Blessings to you. God Bless you as you care for others. It certainly is a gift He has given you.

      Also, thank you for the beautiful flowers. They are on the front porch and a great reminder of folks that helped us and Mom.

      Peg

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  12. Lloyd and Judy McSparran says

    May 22, 2023 at 4:14 pm

    Our sympathies to you, Ron, Mary and Peg, on the loss of your dear mother.
    We look forward to seeing you on the 10th.
    Love, Judy and Lloyd

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    • Peg Schannauer says

      May 26, 2023 at 9:08 am

      Hello Lloyd and Judy

      She had a pretty rough year and was not able to live the life she wanted to. Her prayer for months now had been to see Jesus.

      She was an amazing lady and a great Mom. She was with me for 8 years. I will miss her – but it gives me great peace knowing she is in His hands.

      Looking forward to seeing you on the 10th.

      Safe travels,

      Peg

      Reply

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