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Robert James Sheaffer

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Robert James Sheaffer, age 28 of Lancaster, Pa lost his battle with addiction on Thursday February 4, 2021. He was the beloved son of Mark P. and Susan L. Sheaffer. Robert was a 2010 graduate from Manheim Township High School where he was a member of the football and wrestling teams. He also graduated from Temple University in 2014 with a political science degree. He enjoyed the beach, video games, philosophy, politics, and the study of religions. Robert is survived by his older brother John Sheaffer and grandparents, Eugene and Janet Steffish.  

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  1. Kat and Tom Kreider

    February 9, 2021 at 10:07 am

    Mark and Sue,
    We’re so sorry. We will always remember Robert and how warm and bright and fun he was. Our hearts go out to you.
    We love you, Kat and Tom

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  2. Joe Geiger

    February 9, 2021 at 10:27 am

    So sorry for your loss Mark
    Prayers are coming your way

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  3. April

    February 9, 2021 at 11:30 am

    My deepest condolences to family and friends i never got to meet my nephew in person but have talked a couple of times over fb He will be missed a lot rip Roberto gone but never forgotten love you aunt april

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  4. Mark Usciak

    February 9, 2021 at 11:33 am

    My sincere condolences Mark, keeping you and your family in my prayers….

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  5. Susan Black

    February 9, 2021 at 11:34 am

    I’m so sorry to learn of the passing of your son. May you cherish your memories .

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    • Ronnie Dunn

      February 9, 2021 at 10:10 pm

      My heartfelt condolences to Mark, Sue, Gene, Janet and the entire Sheaffer family. I’m so sad that addiction has taken another. I can’t imagine your feeling’s with the loss of your son. Seek healing in the Lord. You are in my prayers. ❤️

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  6. Pat Garvey

    February 9, 2021 at 11:50 am

    Mark….I am so sorry to see this. My thoughts are with you and your family.

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  7. Bubba

    February 9, 2021 at 1:07 pm

    Love you cuzzo.

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  8. Jodi Keller

    February 9, 2021 at 2:14 pm

    Our thoughts and prayers go out to you – Susan & Mark. I remember Robert well from church and what a sweet little boy he was. His struggles are over- God Bless Him.

    Jodi & Jack Keller

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  9. Mary Riley

    February 9, 2021 at 5:29 pm

    My sincerest sympathies to all of you during this time. No words can express or comfort the loss you have experienced. Only those fond memories that can be cherished during his time with you.

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  10. Andy Esbenshade

    February 9, 2021 at 6:51 pm

    I was so sorry to hear about your son. I have lost way too many friends this way. It makes me sad and choked up to see another kind soul leave us in this way. He has the face of an angel. My wife Lisa and I send you loving prayers at this time.

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  11. Sandra

    February 9, 2021 at 9:22 pm

    My condolences to the family and his other friends. He will truly be missed. He was a great friend, a true superman at times. He has come through for me and my son multiple times. Please know you raised a great man with a heart of gold. I am forever sorry for your loss. For all of those who knew him couldn’t help but to love him. He always could make me laugh, put a smile on my face and my son’s. Please know my prayers are with you. May he rest in peace.

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  12. Denise Lapham

    February 10, 2021 at 7:46 am

    I am so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers to you and your family

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  13. David Farina

    February 10, 2021 at 8:01 am

    Robert always had such a contagious smile and I will forever remember him as a student of mine who went out of his way to show he cared. Memories of Robert in my science class are ones that stand out in my mind when looking back at my 13 years at Manheim Township High School. Robert was so excited to see me when I came to the football games and would go out of his way to express his thanks for me being in attendance. I am truly sorry for your loss and will keep your family in my thoughts through this difficult time.

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  14. Brian Earley

    February 10, 2021 at 8:31 am

    Rob was a student of mine in high school; he was one of the kindest and most insightful students I ever had. I am so sorry for your loss.

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  15. Donna Speece

    February 10, 2021 at 11:50 am

    Did not know this young man but just so sad

    Many prayers for his family

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  16. Terri Urey

    February 10, 2021 at 1:17 pm

    Mark and Sue,
    There are no words I can offer, at this time, to ease the pain for the loss of your son, Robert. Mom and I send our heartfelt sympathy to you both, and to your son John and your parents, Janet and Eugene. Your entire family will remain in our prayers.

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  17. Les Martin

    February 10, 2021 at 2:05 pm

    Mark and Sue,
    I just found out about Robert–I am so sorry for your loss.
    Your family will be in our hearts and prayers. If there is anything I can do
    please let me know.

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  18. Jerrica

    February 10, 2021 at 5:49 pm

    Mark and Sue,
    I am so sorry this happened and I grieve with you and for you. I want to thank you for raising my baby brother into such a kind, caring, loving young man. I can see from the condolences left by others, and from personal experience, that Robert was well loved and a good man. Thank you for that. My thoughts are with you both, John, and the rest of your family as you guys grieve and process.

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  19. Kateri Bright

    February 10, 2021 at 8:14 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss. I graduated with Robert. He was a truly beautiful soul and he will be missed greatly! My condolences.

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  20. Deborah Snyder

    February 11, 2021 at 3:44 pm

    So sorry for the loss of your son. I worked with him at Kmart. He always had a smile on his face and it was infectious to everyone around him.

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  21. Mike and Pam Doughton

    February 11, 2021 at 4:15 pm

    Mark and Sue, we are so sorry for your loss. We will be praying for healing and peace for you both.

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  22. John Sheaffer

    February 18, 2021 at 2:19 am

    Words can’t say enough about Rob. He was a great brother and a great person to talk to. I look at the pictures of him I have and I smile cause of all the fun times we had. I laugh cause he was funny in some of the pictures. I’m glad I know him and im glad I was his brother.You will be missed by alot of people but we all have great memories we all shared with you.
    Rest In Peace

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