Steven Scaricamazza, beloved and faithful husband of Betsy Swartz, passed away on Saturday, January 21st, 2023, after a serious illness.
Steven was born and raised in Delaware County, PA, to Anthony A. and Annette Scaricamazza. He attended Holy Cross Elementary School and Cardinal O’Hara High School in Springfield, PA. Afterwards he attended Drexel University in Philadelphia and got his Bachelors Degree in Accounting, then settled into a successful career as a CPA. After about 25 years working in accounting, he made a career change to work as a counselor, and obtained much personal satisfaction in helping others.
Steven had a kind heart and an observant mind, connecting concepts together as masterfully as a great teacher. He loved reading and learning and had a deep spiritual well of insights to share with those he had conversations with. He was a wonderful listener and counselor, drawing people closer to talk with him wherever he went.
He was a man of faith who practiced what he believed and always sought to know deeper spiritual truth. He loved contemplation and silent retreats. He was a faithful member of St. James Episcopal Church and served on the altar guild, touching those he served with.
Steven was a constant and devoted fan of Betsy’s violin playing, attending almost every performance she played in and providing her with continual support and encouragement.
We take comfort that our staggering loss means he is now fulfilled and in the perfect presence of the Lord.
He is survived by his wife Betsy, his brother Anthony (Nancy), his mother Annette, and his mother-in-law Verna.
A memorial service will be held on Saturday, February 11, 2023, at 10:00 am at St. James Episcopal Church, 119 N. Duke Street, Lancaster PA. The service will also be livestreamed.
Donations in Steven’s memory can be made to St. James Episcopal Church, https://www.saintjameslancaster.org.
Judy Kruse says
Dearest Betsy, please know that you are deeply and dearly loved.
We send you comfort from the depths of our hearts.
Emily & Craig says
Such a gentle and inquisitive man, thoughtful and profound. We are so thankful the Lord saw fit to have Steven’s and Betsy’s path cross with our own. We are richer for it. Steven’s impact is felt even as we mourn this great loss, and his works follow him. I love the picture I have of Steven’s awe and wonder and joy as he experiences the timeless glory of God, now open to him in full.
Much love. “The nearness of God is [your] good.” (Psalm 73:28)
Cynthia L Bareis says
Betsy and Steve’s family. I am so sorry for your loss. I was very fortunate to have been a friend to Steve and a co-worker. We had good times together and happy memories. I was so happy to hear that Steve found Betsy. I know we never have enough time together but I hope that you have happy memories to comfort you at this time. Cynthia L Bareis
Tammy Coles and Family says
Anthony and family our deepest condolence and may God Almighty Jesus continue to watch over your family. May Jesus give you all strength during this time of need. We will continue to pray for your strength and may The Lord Jesus continue to use this family for His will and purpose. In Jesus Name Amen
Anne Boal says
Dear Betsy, please know that we are praying for you and yours in this great loss of Steven. We are sending peace, love and light to you all in your sorrow.
Virginia Robinson says
Dear Betsy,
I enjoyed getting to know Steven at Saint James both in church and during Contemplative Prayer via Zoom. He was so engaged and insightful. I am sorry for your loss and will keep you in my prayers.
Best,
Ginjr Humphreys Robinson
Deb & Marge says
There are no words to adequately express how saddened we are over the loss of Steven. Betsy, you and the family have our complete sympathy. What a beautiful bond you and Steven had together. Our lives are so much better because of our friendship and time together. We intend to support you through this process in faith and love..
Love,
Deb & Marge
Christine L Roe says
Dear friends of the Holy One of God, it is with sincere compassion that I am writing to express my condolences to family and friends of Steven. I pray you are all comforted, encouraged, and reminded of the love shared between you through all the days ahead. Peace, Christine Roe
Bruce and Ruthie says
Betsey
What a beautiful and honoring obituary of your very special husband
Bruce and I did not know him well but we are so grateful for you that he was your #1 best friend and love of your life!
We are so deeply blessed that you had the last couple years together!
We know God will bless you and keep you and cause HIS face to shine upon you and give you peace☝️❤️
Susan Burkholder says
Betsy,
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband, Steven. You are in our prayers as you grieve this great loss! May you experience God’s perfect peace as He meets with you in your pain and loss.
Susan Burkholder
Groff Cheri says
Oh Betsy…hard to find words, but my heart grieves for you. May the Lord’s shalom make a way where there seems to be no way and encompasss you on this hard journey.
You are always welcome in Holtwood…-Cheri and Steve
Christine Power says
Betsy, I am so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you my friend.
Christine
Angel Downs says
My Dear Beloved Betsy,
As you go through this staggering journey,may you hold on ever so tightly to those who will help strengthen you when you are too weak and may you know when you fall apart..fall apart in the arms of your Savior.
All my love and prayers
Angel L Downs